tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4935806691276827946.post3345316013482974950..comments2023-10-25T10:39:52.389-04:00Comments on Steph's thoughts: Scars of a frigntened teenagerstephsharpehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04114356711626962827noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4935806691276827946.post-32378414956620081822008-09-11T09:30:00.000-04:002008-09-11T09:30:00.000-04:00Hey.Just wanted to say, I know very well what that...Hey.<BR/><BR/>Just wanted to say, I know very well what that is like. Here is something that may help: ask your parents to explain, in detail, their own sides of the story. I didn't do that for a long time but now that I know my dad's point of view on my parents' divorce, I've been able to let go of what happened.<BR/><BR/>I had a psychologist once, and she reminded me that my dad had no duty to live up to my expectations - he was his own person and within his right to make mistakes. And people do. Sometimes it's a mistake for them to get married in the first place! Try to picture it like that, rather than being angry and hurt. It's understandable to be, I was for ten years after my folks broke up, but you don't <I>have</I> to be, there will come a point where it is a choice.<BR/><BR/>I kind of agree with what you were saying about how the divorce rate makes marriage look a lot less worthwhile. It doesn't guarantee <I>anything</I> any more, does it? :(Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4935806691276827946.post-73538829458622417932008-07-17T12:27:00.000-04:002008-07-17T12:27:00.000-04:00I understand where your coming from completly and ...I understand where your coming from completly and I just want to remind you that I will always be here if you ever need just a listening heart or a "get your life together" mouth. No matter what homie thick or thin I'll be here to point you towards the one that can satisfy you the most, Jesus. I want you to know as well that just as much as you need me i need you! "we need each other" by Sanctus real ;) to encourage, rebuke, and love one another :)DaniGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05044512534526171334noreply@blogger.com